Are Dads Indispensible?

Are Dads Dispensible?
Source: The Paleoconservative Primer
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Published: Jul 29, 2007
Author: Jayne Gardener



When did fathers become objects of ridicule in our culture? I can't pinpoint the exact time myself but I can honestly say it was in my lifetime.


I grew up during a time in which most fathers were breadwinners and most mothers stayed home to take care of the household chores and raise the children. Husbands took pride in providing a good home and the necessities of life for their families while their wives took pride in keeping the home running smoothly and looking out for the needs of their husbands and children.


None of my friends were the product of single parent families unless one of the parents had died. Divorce was something rare in those days, at least in the small village where I was raised, and it was most certainly something the majority frowned upon. To be a widow was lamentable. To be a divorcee was scandalous.


Television sitcoms back then often revolved around traditional families which reflected true life. Father Knows Best, The Donna Reed Show, Leave It To Beaver and Ozzie and Harriet all had the same family structure. The father was wise, loving and kind, but firm. He was the definite head of the family who was deferred to by his wife as well as being respected and perhaps a little feared by his children. They came to him for his wisdom and advice and admired him for being a strong, positive role model.


So what happened? Today we have sitcoms where fathers are portrayed as drooling idiots who are disrespected by their offspring and who are constantly being shown the error of their ways by their more intelligent, more competent better halves. We see men who behave like mentally challenged children who are constantly earning the scorn and ire of their spouses.


They are demeaned and ridiculed by other family members and the female heads of the household are charged with the responsibility of fixing the chaos and disorder they create. Examples of this abound but I think the earliest example I can point to is Married With Children. Many shows would follow their formula.


Even commercials have gotten into the act, many of them depicting men as foolish, juvenile and irresponsible while their wives are depicted as mature, emotionally stable, long suffering and endlessly more competent.


Where functional families used to be the norm now we are given example after ad nauseum example of family dysfunction. No wonder so many people on the left scorn traditional families and traditional values. If I thought those television sitcoms were an accurate reflection of most American families I'd have a pretty skewed view as well.


In a discussion about this very issue the other day I was quite shocked when a female acquaintance said that she didn't know what the big deal was about single women raising children alone. "Fathers are not really necessary," she said seriously to my absolute incredulity.


That statement alone is a testament to the successful brainwashing in our society by a Jewish run media who has convinced a generation of idiots and dullards that fathers are dispensible. It frustrates and angers me that we have become a society where men are not valued and respected in their role as parent.


Fathers are very necessary if children are going to be raised well to become emotionally healthy, stable, well-adjusted and productive citizens. I'm not saying that single mothers can't do a good job of raising their kids because many can and do, but it's not the ideal.


Girls need a father because it's the first man she will have a close relationship with and her relationship with him will colour all future relationships with men. Women often choose to marry men very like their fathers because their fathers had all the qualities they wanted in a man. My own husband is very like my father in a lot of ways.


The reason a boy needs a father should be self evident to all but the 75 IQers among us. He needs to learn how to become a man and it takes a man to teach him. When my son was born I knew how to take care of a baby and I knew that children needed a lot of love and caring attention but I hadn't even the vaguest notion of how to teach my son to be a man. That's what fathers are for.


If we want to see a glaring example of what happens when fathers are absent, just take a look at the poor black neighbourhoods in American cities where there is a near 70% illegitimacy rate and black fathers are rarely found living with their children in this largely matriarchal society. Could the absence of a strong father figure have anything to do with the 50% teen pregnancy rate and the out of control crime rate of angry black youths? I dare say yes.


So why are fathers so denigrated in our society? I think the answer is again axiomatic. The largely Jewish controlled media hates the traditional family and traditional Christian family values. They are anathema to their agenda and they seek to undermine it and destroy it by any means possible.


Don't let them fool you. Fathers are valuable. They are very valuable and play an indispensible role in the raising of their children. We should thank our lucky stars that so many of them are decent, responsible human beings who take their role as fathers and the raising of future productive citizens seriously.


If people refused to watch the mindless drivel that passes for entertainment on television these days perhaps we could have some sort of return to sanity. I'm sick of seeing these dysfunctional families with their mouthy, disrespectful offspring in sitcom after stupid sitcom. It is a fact that Jews are heavily involved in conceiving, writing, directing and producing these programs and they do it deliberately to advance their agenda.


Being a good father is something that every male parent should aspire to and we should celebrate those who succeed at it, not denigrate and mock them.


Fathers are undoubtedly and unarguably important in the lives of their children. To say otherwise is to adopt the mantra of the Jewish supremacists who see the nuclear family and traditional Christian values as the enemy to be mocked, ridiculed and eventually destroyed.


One can only imagine the upbringing of some of these Hollywood types if this is their view of what a family is and how it functions. Of course to them, a family is any two people living under the same roof whether or not they're related to each other.


Rational people know better.

[Nelson]

Henry Makow has written much on this ground in his SaveTheMales site. I'm sure World War Jew had a great deal to do with wrecking fatherhood. That's when women went to work in huge numbers and most things that were greator dear about our civiization were canceled by the rapidly mushrooming Ziomania that was and is opposed to everything traditional.


Of course those who are most to blame are "U.S." Nothing happens in this (Western) world without us white males allowing it to. "It's a fine mess you've gotten us into this time, Olly......."[img]smileys/smiley5.gif[/img]


Edited by: Nelson

[Tom Iron]

UncleDudley - Nelson, Excellent posts.

I agree, the TV has a big influence on people in general, but children in particular. Children are in their formative yrs. and take this stuff in and want to emulate what they see on TV, probably unconsiously.
Whether it's the Jewish writers trying to undermind this nation or just writing to what the public wants, I don't know. However, the effect is the same regardless.
At this point, I'd advise people to get rid of their TV's altogether as I did about five yrs. ago. I don't think it'd hurt anybody. After supper, my wife and I just read our books until we go to bed. I love the silence. Sometimes I stop reading for a minute and just enjoy the silence. I realize that for a family to do this with older children, would start a war in the family. The children would fight hard to continue what they've been brought up with. The best time to start such a project is when the child/ren are still infants.

UncleDudley - Your comment about the woman who didn't see anything wrong with a family being raised by a single parent is the norm anymore. From what I can gather, most women trying to do this are seriously stressed, many to the point of mental illness. The young men (in their 20's)talk about young women as if they're talking about people who have very serious problems. When they reach their thirties, if they aren't married, they're on those overseas (Russian, East European) dating services on the computer. Then there are the young men who tell stories of their divorces that make you cringe. The women seem to hate them so much it's incredible (they want to hurt their husbands financially to the point of homelessness), etc. Finally, it seems the relations between men and women under the age of lets say 45, there is an idea of competitiveness rather than trying to work together as a team to produce a family that can function as adults. That's why so many young adults are staying home into their late twenties I think.

The subject is endless and exausting.

Tom Iron...

Tom Iron,


I just posted the comments of one Jayne Gardener, former leftwing, liberal feminazi.


None of the above are my own comments.


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" Finally, it seems the relations between men and women under the age of lets say 45, there is an idea of competitiveness "


This is true, except I'd make that 60 and under. The subject, as you state, is almost inexhaustible; and tiring; and fatiquing to no end. We need to bring back Jehu from the Old Testament for a few days, and throw the big witches out the window.

The wars against the white American males in our society are never ending,if he is ever totally brought down,who do our own females think will protect them from the ever encroaching hordes of non-whites,and who will maintain and run this 1st world American,"for now",way of life.

[DixieDestroyer]

Outstanding article & valid points gentlemen. This relentless attack on the white male (husbands, fathers) is part of the Globalist Elite's agenda to undermind the moral foundation & traditions of our once-great Constitutional Republic. "Sheeplevision" is a key tool of the Elite to spread their agenda & gradually zombify the American sheeple into a stupor. In addition to the open malebashing, there arealsomany little innuedos and subtle hints that are constantly flowing via advertisements as well. The constant (white) male bashing is so overt and disgusting.


My wife & Ilimit our children's television time &only allow them to watch select shows or DVDs. I personally only watch some MMA (UFC, Bodog & IFL),Georgia Bulldawg football (during the season)some local news & a documentary or old movie here or there. TV is about 85-95% trash. Getting rid of the "Sewerline-into-the-home" is a good idea indeed.Edited by: DixieDestroyer

In most American families today,if Dad tried to limit or end t.v. watching,he may be reported to some agency for mental abuse,or punched out by a rough and tough mom and wife who has had her head filled with propaganda telling her that she can get away with it.